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Soul Selfish

The Awakening of a “Good Girl”

Choosing to be soul selfish is a good thing, probably the best thing you can ever do.

Jane Wyker’s first book, Soul Selfish: The Awakening of a “Good Girl,” is a story that shows the importance of becoming soul selfish on the path to creating sustained happiness. It traces her courageous path overcoming multigenerational influences, shedding conditioned beliefs, behaviors and roles, gradually taking ownership of her essential womanhood. She walks us through her process of reconnecting with her body and emotions, changing many beliefs and opening space for spiritual trust. With the help of more than a dozen brilliant and loving teachers from several varying disciplines, she has deeply invested herself in expanding her consciousness and identifying her authentic self, her soul that lies under all those beliefs and interpretations.

Soul Selfish demonstrates the transformative power of the inner journey. Through insightful and spiritually uplifting stories Jane shares the happiness, creativity, freedom and peace possible for anyone dedicated to honoring their authentic self — their soul. Through her example she shares with us the blessings of awareness and self-love that overflow to others when we dare to be selfish for our soul.

Praise for Soul Selfish

There is no one braver, no one more courageous and no one more passionate than Jane Wyker. Let her story inspire you – whether you are 18 or 85 – to live your fullest life.”

Regena Thomashauer, Creatrix of The School of Womanly Arts

This enlightening, easy-to-read memoir is a gift that gives selfish a new meaning. It recounts years of insight and reflection, motivating women of all ages to look within. Jane’s story is an eye-opener; her book Soul Selfish has something to teach us all.”

Barbara Stanny, Author of “Sacred Success: A Course in Financial Miracles”

Every ‘Good Girl’ will see themselves, their sisters, mothers and daughters in this book. With wisdom and grace, Jane invites us on her journey. She knows about soul, spirit and a spoonful of sassy. And success! Soul Selfish is your guide to joy and pleasure, inviting you to taste life at the banquet table.”

Eileen Michaels, President Wealth Concepts, A Strategic Financial Consulting Company

To find happiness in your world, first find it in yourself. That’s the lesson Jane has learned. And teaches. While honoring herself, she encourages you to honor yourself. With a gift for story and a pen that writes with a smile and heart, Jane courageously listens to her ‘soul’s whisper’ and shares profound words that are noble and wise…. and become a book I will not forget.”

Ira Joe Fisher, Broadcaster and Author of “The Creek at the End of the Lawns” and others

Amazon reviews for Soul Selfish

I’ve read many, many books on personal growth, spirituality, and female empowerment, but I have rarely encountered an author so vulnerable, sensitive, and deeply real in sharing her personal story. Jane Wyker is amazing. Not only was I completely sucked into the memoir aspect of the book, but I felt like certain chapters struck me like a bolt of lightning. ‘OMG that’s me!!!'”

Lauren Sapala, Five-Star Amazon Reviewer

This is an extraordinary book! I literally could not put it down, bumping into walls as I walked around while reading it. Profound insights on every page, drawn from Ms. Wyker’s remarkable self-awareness and her equally remarkable memory. But what impressed me most is her courage, not only to take the steps she took to create the life she wanted and needed, but then to describe her journey in such deeply personal and moving terms.”

Steve Brieger, Five-Star Amazon Reviewer

Such precious and vulnerable insight written with this special something that makes a book a fabulous read. I can only recommend it to any woman of whatever age. It makes me want to become more ‘soul selfish’ myself. Thank you, Jane Wyker, for sharing your amazing life’s story.”

Anonymous, Five-Star Amazon Reviewer

Jane’s memoir is an exquisite, rapturous love affair – with herself! Through vibrant detail, insightful observations and intoxicating curiosity, we learn about ourselves while witnessing her journey. Soul Selfish is a beautiful, compassionate and inspiring read!”

Anonymous, Five-Star Amazon Reviewer

Goodreads reviews for Soul Selfish

This is a delightful and very insightful book that takes us on a journey though one woman’s life as she grows through the ages. I see myself in so many places throughout this book.

I am a bit jealous of this woman. She has done some amazing in-depth soul searching and learning that has made a complete difference in her world and shares some awesome insight for all women to embrace. If you are looking to the answers for questions deep inside you, this book will bring some clarity to light.”

Chris Carroll,

Author Jane Wyker presents a memoir that is generously full of truth and revelation. She lavishes the reader with details of her “coming of age” which spans her youth, early adulthood, through her first marriage in to the belly of her second marriage.

What strikes me about her writing is how bare and honest it is. Wyker is forgiving with her keeping the reader close to her struggles and eager for resolution. Not predictable in any way, I enjoyed the way this writer took me through decades of growth, of joys and losses, and ultimately back to myself.”

Suzi Baum, Five-Star Goodreads Reviewer

A vivid portrayal of a woman’s life from early years to her sunset years. It is rich with Jane’s insight and emotional responses to just about everything.  It is fun to read and return to as new adventures keep unfolding.

Jane’s soul develops on the pages and is fresh and fun filled with compassion and a truly loving spirit. I highly recommend this charming gem of a true story.”

Steve Bodansky, Five-Star Goodreads Reviewer

Being a recovering “good girl” myself, I could totally relate to Jane’s life. I appreciated her courage to follow her heart and not letting others get in her way.

Her story was hard to put down and easy to pick up. I looked forward to the times I could read again. It was well written. I enjoyed it!”

Victoria Benoit, Five-Star Goodreads Reviewer